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help feeling. This I should recommend, even if from 

 no higher motive than that the casual observer should 

 not judge them too harshly. It is a rooted idea in the 

 minds of many men that a bad daughter makes a bad 

 wife. Was not lago's strongest argument in the poi- 

 soning of Othello's mind against poor Desdemona,' She 

 did deceive her father marrying you' ? Not long ago I 

 heard a young man say : ' I mean to marry for a 

 mother-in-law that is to say, I will never marry a girl 

 who does not love her mother, nor would I marry a girl 

 with a mother whom I thought unworthy of her love.' 



The French, of course, exact an outward expression 

 of devotion from both sons and daughters unknown in 

 this country, and I doubt whether our literature could 

 produce a parallel passage to these opening lines of 

 Florian's poem of ' Ruth' : 



Le plus saint des devoirs, celui qu'en trait de flamme 

 La nature a grav6 dans le fond de notre dme, 

 C'est de ch^rir 1'objet qui nous donna le jour. 

 Qu'il est doux & remplir ce pre'cepte d'amour ! 

 Voyez ce faible enfant que le tr6pas menace ; 

 II ne sent plus ses maux quand sa mere I'embrasse. 

 Dans 1'age des erreurs ce jeune homme fougueux 

 N'a qu'elle pour ami des qu'il est malheureux ; 

 Ce vieillard qui va perdre un reste de lumiere 

 Eetrouve encore des pleurs en parlant de sa mere. 



Last summer, while waiting at a hot railway station 

 and pondering in my mind how I could bring together a 

 few notes that might help to solve some of the difficul- 

 ties in girls' lives, I caught sight of a little yellow publi- 

 cation on the bookstall, called ' The Modern Marriage 

 Market.' It will be remembered that this consisted of 

 four articles, by ladies, reprinted from magazines. I 

 bought it at once, thinking that these ladies would prob- 

 ably say what I wanted to say better than I could do it. 



