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for it, from what we had seen of her wasted strength, 

 we did not expect it so soon. The ways of God are 

 dark and incomprehensible to us poor short-sighted 

 mortals. It is our duty not to murmur, but to pray 

 for submission. When Providence, in early life, 

 removes from us those who have trusted in God, 

 and faithfully performed their duties, we should 

 believe that they have accomplished the work their 

 Maker designed them to perform, and have lived a long 

 life in a few years. In indulging a natural sorrow ior 

 the departed, let us not forget our duty to the living. 



You have had a severe trial — you have witnessed 

 her last hours. I pray God to soothe your griefs, 

 and strengthen you foi^ the duties now before you. 



You are aware how deep was our regret at part- 

 ing from you. Now, since your melancholy duties 

 are performed, we long for your immediate return. 

 You have always been a comfort to your parents, 

 and especially to your mother, who now needs you 

 more than I do. How far this new trial will aftect 

 her, I know not. I trust that, on your return, you 

 will find her better than when you left her, and as 

 composed in mind, as can be expected, under pres- 

 ent circumstances. 



Victor and John will make all necessary arrange- 

 ments for your return — let it be immediate. Now 

 that the hand of God is upon us, we look not only 

 for His support, but also for the stay, the sympathy, 

 and presence of our friends. 



Dear Victor : 



I do not know that I can add anything that will 

 tend to alleviate your sorrows and comfort you 

 under an affliction that has fallen on you, in com- 

 mon with us. You have our deepest sympathies. 

 We pray God to support you. 



Your affectionate father, J. B. 



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