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in such cases must come from some male relative as well as the 
woman herself. Also remember that among native peoples there 
is frequently little secrecy about such affairs. They usually 
become a matter of common village gossip. 
When staying with natives there are certain things you can 
do that will help you to become accepted as a member of the 
group more quickly than if you hold aloof. Entertain them with 
match tricks, games, feats of skill, dances and songs. Unless 
you are unusually strong and proficient along that line, don’t 
try to impress them with plain bull strength, as the natives prob- 
ably are better equipped than you are In that respect and might 
show you a thing or two. They like to entertain too, so be a 
good audience and let them perform for you and be duly ap- 
preciative of their efforts. Show admiration for products of 
native handicraft, but don’t be too profuse in your praise or 
they may feel they should give the object to you. Most “primi- 
tive” peoples are rather fond of playing practical jokes and 
probably will do so at your expense. If you find yourself the 
victim of some native form of “hot-foot,” join them in their 
laughter; don’t lose your temper and show anger even though 
they have hurt you. Another thing that is of great help in 
winning favor is to learn as many words of the native language 
as you can pick up. They will take delight in teaching you 
if you show a willingness and desire to learn. Whatever you 
do , leave a good impression because other white men may come 
along later and need help. If you have abused your privileges 
or taken advantage of the people those who follow will suffer 
for it. 
Should you be stationed where you have time ashore and there 
are natives, make friends with some of them and have them 
